Wednesday, March 23, 2011

the mistake

years to earn but only seconds to break~



Its funny how one mistake, big or small, can make you change your whole perspective on a person…


Sure you can forgive that person… he/she can easily say “I’m sorry” and you can sincerely say “it’s okay.. I forgive you”…. But let’s face reality here people… forgiving is one thing… but forgetting? It’s not really simple… let me give you an example… of two different situations…


Anita accidentally spilled some apple juice on Johan’s new shirt… Johan is a little pissed cause he bought it yesterday but he knew it was an accident so he forgive and forget. Eventually when they remember this… they’ll just laugh about it especially when remembering the funny face Johan did when trying his best to get the juice stained off his shirt…

That was an example of a simple mistake that can easily be forgiven and forgotten.. Let me give you another situation...

Johan didn’t finish his homework… so he took the easy way out… he stole Anita’s work with the intention of copying it… but Johan didn’t really plan his moves well… cause Anita wanted to double check her homework but somehow she couldn’t find it… she looked all over the class… asking a whole bunch of people… and eventually she stumbled upon Johan with her homework… at the printing and photocopy store…

some of you… might think…

“alaaa~ biase la tu… student… keje camtu je pon… biar je la dia copy.. tak payah la sampai nak ngadu2 kat cikgu ~”

Sape yang pikir macam tu memang aku nak operate otak dia... pastu nak lempang otak dia laju-laju...

Think harder people…


This isn’t some silly juice spilled mistake… it’s about trust… Anita can easily forgive Johan… but how could she trust him after that… she will always remember that he thought she was too stupid or too blur to figure out what he had done… and the worst part is… he didn’t ask her permission… meaning he stole it… and how could she forget the fact that he didn’t even respect her as his friend… out of respect, the least he could do is ask permission so that Anita could consider on giving permission…


The conclusion? I still think its funny how one mistake, big or small, can make you change your whole perspective on a person…




p/s : I forgive you… sincerely I do… but if you want my trust… try earning them back~


4 comments:

  1. menusuk kalbu...
    its ok my dear.bljr dr pengalaman.
    btul org ckp,kita xkn pnh kenal seseorg tu smp bila2...

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  2. setujukkk dengan inass. sabar banyak banyak kd ):

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  3. @inas: kd tekejut je time tu... tak sangka... tapi skrg dah okay dah... :)

    @sunday: thanks jee.. :) jom shopping! hahaa~

    @nasir: ish ko ni... i cannot brain this laa... *tampal jpeg muka meminta2* hahaha~

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